For privacy’s sake I will not go into great detail here, but suffice it to say that married life is much better in some respects than I had imagined, and much worse in some others. A good thing to journal would be your insights into relationships. For one thing, you might have just the right piece of advice for someone. What constitutes a normal relationship in one generation is not the same in the next. Societies roles change. I understand my parents and grandparents much more now as a forty something adult than I did when I was younger.